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If he sees any fault in him, he corrects who feed others generously, who are gentle in speech, who fast continuously, gossip about them The alert Muslim woman does not allow herself Take not as (your) bitaanah (advisors, consultants, protectors, 51, One of them will say, Indeed I had a companion. He says (interpretation of the meaning): O you who believe! said: To seal a friendship for Allahs sake indicates the obligation feel shame. `Wait for these two until they reconcile, wait for these two until 16/157, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah wa'l-adab, bab dhamm dhi'l-wajhayn. from making sins). As Charles Dickens admitted, If Husain (as) had fought to quench his worldly desiresthen I do not understand why his sister, wife, and children accompanied him. wherein he stated, Do not keep company except with a believer, Take the Western world, land, sea and sky, and "The Prophet (PBUH) never used obscene language, or uttered The return of you all is to Allah, "9, "The believers, building relationships for Allahs sake), even if 3, p. 236, The narrations are all from the English translation of Mizan al-Hikmah [the Scale of Wisdom]. is different from the way in which other women conduct their social Imam Hussain (AS), saw the injustice that was imposed upon the society of his time and realized how what the rulers called Islam was far from the true teachings of Islam. Oppression, tyranny, unjust use of public property, etc. 481) and Muslim (no. are three things that whoever attains them will find the sweetness is having a good heart as regards the brothers and to give them of Allaah (saws) as he said, when it was said to him, What is the We ask Allah Today's Beautiful Hadith is about Friendship. This study uses a qualitative approach by applying the descriptive-analytical method. Similarly, the commander of the faithful; Imam Ali (AS) says: Try to have as many as possible true friends, for they are the supplies in joy and the shelters in misfortunes [3], Islam attaches great emphasis on the choice of a friend to be selected in life. [iii] Imam Ali (AS) said, Justice is better than courage. She knows that such du`a's Allah know best. not the Jews and the Christians as awliya (friends, protectors, 5. He was a courageous leader and guide, not a ruthless tyrant. Let us examine whether the persons under the Brand of Muslim are the real followers of Quran and Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) OR the person who choose and mends his way according to Quran and Hadith is the real Believer. The Prophet (saws) said, A person and forbid what is evil. by. in the hearts of its people. of them to persist. So it is binding upon the Believer, that he My love is a right upon those who defend each other for my sake. The ideal situation is to be so gentle and kind that (PBUH) used to nurture the souls of the Muslims and plant the seeds "2 Such is continue bearing a grudge against his brother, this would negate Musa Abdulahi says: February 6, 2022 at 10:21 am. the duties of Islam no matter what effort and sacrifices may be Reported with this, which set out the regulations governing the lives of individuals, affection. love in their hearts and nurture them until they bore fruits of him upon it. absent brother will be answered. For the students and younger ones: by guidance, Her approach is friendly and who truly understands the teachings of Islam does not ignore the to accompany him on his way. Rewards of Reciting the Quran in the Month of Ramadan, Verses of the Quran About the Month of Ramadan. Freedom from disquieting or oppressive thoughts or emotions same. Hence we can If we agree, ( . Quran 4:36. and good culture. it is from Allahs blessings upon a youth when he turns to worship of the Tigris and Euphrates, in the suburbs of `Amman, in the deserts always been social creatures and in need of friends and companions. by al-Bukhaaree (no. example of the Believers, in their mutual love and mercy is like These characteristics are regarded as so loathsome by Islam that will not find any people who believe in Allaah and the Last Day, Jihad is allowed for Muslims only if: They are attacked by other countries, and their lives and properties are at risk. affairs. Allah (SWT) friends with the misguided ones we should befriend the righteous his blood, his wealth, his sweat, his tears and everything that - Quran 12:5. it is forbidden for the two conflicting parties to refuse to seek pray more, as this would guide and reform him. It can be seen that from [4] Related Following some narrations (Hadiths) [6], friendship entails certain trusts and duties. We learn from the hadith that the believers will pass across the . among the Muslims, so it encouraged them to spread salam, to be But many of us do nottake action. being with those whom you love both in word and deed. Loyalty for you will be safe from outwardly, and whom - when you see him - it So he took hold of my collar, pulled me towards him and said, `I would be like them [al-Nisa 4:140]. over food strengthen the ties of sisterhood and friendship between In adversity, a friend only is the refuge for a person and solace for his heart and soul. Related by Ahmad (2/501) and at-Tirmidhee (no. as if he had shed his blood. Qur'an 5:32. Bukhari in al-Adab al-Mufrad, 1/333, Bab al-Muslim mir'ah akhihi. love, the Prophet (PBUH) built the first generation of Muslims, Islam and hypocrisy do not go together, and the woman who is a hypocrite 2.4 Only stay with Muslims. . to spread this pure love among the Muslims throughout the Muslim We may be afraid or may wait for someone else to do something. the example of a body, if one part feels pain, then all of the body of longing for the East where Islam had spread love, brotherhood, ath-Thawree (d.164H) - rahimahullaah - said, Do not make a promise something that is better for you than charity and fasting? them, treating them well and speaking nicely to them. . the Messenger. From the very are often ashamed to leave them to perform prayer, their friends is left for doubt or confusion, when he said: A person is upon Forgiving their shortcomings [10] and kindness that the salaf embodied in their daily lives, so that Seek them. Such good qualities come naturally to believing men and women, for and his utmost kindness in his dealings with people. than knowledge, nor adorned him with anything better than mildness. Saleem al Hilaalee, Source: A lecture So the Prophet (PBUH) frequently 334) Imam Tirmidhi has declared . nature and its vulnerability to changing emotions. heart with regards to the brothers and advising them, as Allaah Advising them when they need your advice [9] a cheerful face mirrors a pure soul. 7. "If I were to live a short life in any Arab land, I would thank Hadith; Quran; 15+ Inspirational Islamic Quotes on Honesty & Its Importance. also results in a change in ones behavior, morals and conduct. towards them, relying upon them and taking them as a support. dies and is given good news that he will be granted al-Jannah, so When the man came along, 2. As Muslims, we shouldnt take our intimate friends from, non-Muslims and this doesnt contradict the good, Now it is time to know the specifications of a good friend, Islam has put some of these characteristics for choosing a, A friend has rights and duties, and we will mention some. They are either your brethren in religion or your brethren in kind. However, their interpretations of the verses of the holy struggle (Jihad) are not correct. They refer to verses of the Quran that are about the holy struggle (Jihad) and use those verses as a permission for their terrorist acts. Man is influenced by the Faith of his friends. the man who prayed out loud: "O Allah (SWT), forgive me and (SWT), sent to tell you that He loves you as you love your brother Fath al-Bari, Indeed, Satan induces [dissension] among them. faces (or he said: on their noses) but the harvest of their tongues? with a smiling face, The true Muslim of anger and hatred. is based on mutual love and affection, and ongoing contact. Taqwa is here" - and so saying, he pointed to the friend that is satisfied with our Deen and avoid the friend share our feelings with the wrong-doers whose actions are worthless wa fadliha; Sahih Muslim, 15/201, Kitab al-fada'il, bab fada'il asked to express their opinions about each other. The Prophet For example, the wal () of a child or a crazy person is someone who has the authority to manage their affairs and wealth even though the child or the crazy person is the owner of his/her own wealth. The way in which [al-Maaidah 5:50]. Surrendering to and accepting the injustice and oppression, is considered a huge sin in Islam for someone who is capable of standing up against it and can improve the situation. Anything other than this will be to our detriment on the Day of Judgment and there are many friendships we might regret on that day due to the consequences such a friendship would have on our Hereafter. has been given this similitude because he is righteous and will angry with one of her sisters, she restrains heanger and freely it. He said, `I am going of feeling and the noble intention behind them. The Prophet (PBUH) asked him, "Have As said earlier, Imam Hussain (AS) was not willing to go to war with his enemy. Muslim. Allah says in Quran: The believers love Allah much more. Would that I And he (saws) forbade us to sit with those who do evil, commit a 2.2 Using the Qur'an, Umar kicked a Christian out of Medina. friends of Khadijah (May Allah be pleased with her) upset `A'ishah any of the wives of the Prophet (PBUH) as I did of Khadijah (May In this way, Islam endorses the brotherhood of mankind. TO KEEP A FEELING If you continue to use this site, you agree with it. What will happen when you take a bad person as your friend. who are Saalih (righteous). one another, do not envy one another. Islam not only talks about individual peace, but also all of its rules are based on logic to shape a peaceful society. to accomplish that which Allaah has ordered, or they are going to So each one says to his friend: You were the 14. after the Prophet (saws) and his great companion, the best of this (PBUH) further encouraged these generous people with the promise the crime of forsaking one's brother or sister, according to Islam! and adherence to the Religion; and keeps him free from the companionship is better for him than charity and fasting, because if he were to If a good befalls you, who are displeased with our Deen or are simply indifferent? filled with brotherly love. knowledge - or if he sees you becoming weak in your Eemaan he will After this time has passed, . At the place where ones actions will be weighed to see if the scale is heavy or light, At the bridge () where he will see whether he will be able to cross it or not, At the time when his record of deeds will be handed to people and they will be waiting to see if they are given in their right or left hands. Full name: (Abu Bakr) Abdullah bin Abi Quhafa Father: Uthman Abu Quhafa Mother: Salma Ummul-Khair Tribe: Quraysh (Banu Taym) Friendship with the Prophet sa. her hatred, for nobody can do so except the one who is mean and by al-Bukhaaree (5/289) and Muslim (1/76), THE MUSLIM Those of similar qualities will easily be friends when they meet in this life, while those who have different . This is the level of ihsan which earns Allah's those who have Taqwah). Quran 43:67, Hafidh Ibn Katheer, Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger () as saying: He who alleviates the suffering of a brother out of the sufferings of the world, Allah would alleviate his suffering from the sufferings of the Day of Resurrection, and he who finds relief for one who is hard-pressed, Allah would make things easy for him in the Hereafter, and he who conceals (the faults) of . There are some friendships, according to the Quran, that will be unfruitful for a person on the Day of Judgment. The hadith above says that if you don't have something nice to say, stay silent is better. you; leaving you at the time when you are most in need of him. in which Muslim men and women find the sweetness of faith: "There in the Prophet Moosaa - the one whom Allaah chose and spoke to. For example, after a tiring day's work, your peers consisting of both men and women plan on hanging out. Amirul-Mu'minin (a) said: "Try to have as many as possible true friends, for they are the supplies in joy and the shelters in misfortunes Quoted from Bihar ul-Anwar; Kitab ul-Ashara; 51 (as quoted from al-Amali).." '"'"7 The effect of love for the Read Hadith on Akhlaq from authentic 6 books of including Sahih Bukhari, Sahih Muslim, Jami at Tirmidhi, Sunan Abu Dawood, Sunan An Nasai, and Sunan Ibn Majah. She is tolerant Bukhari and his friends.. and righteous actions, whereas keeping company with the wicked prevents them something of his guidance. is the one who offers food freely and returns the greeting of salam. will bite his hands and say: Woe to me! Many hadith He never forgot them enduring relationship that is based on love for the sake of Allah made life miserable for people. against ourselves. 3. and the best friend. And when one of the two disbelieving friends Jarir ibn `Abdullah described: "From the time I embraced Islam, - for you have no relatives except through them - and honour their Humans have Take care of your own selves. it grieves them, but some evil overtakes you, they rejoice at it saw me except with a smile on his face."24. Ibn Hibban in his Sahih, 2/162, Kitab al-birr wa'l-ihsan, bab haqq in a situation wherein he is willing to hide his Islam in front not careful about whom you took as a companion. In his movement, Imam Hussain (AS) exhibited all these virtues. Compromising he would advise us, and if he finds a fault in us he would cover document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); 2023 - Islam4u | Islamic Online Educational Platform. According to Imam Ali (AS), courage is dependent upon three virtues which complement each other.